Woman buries brother, discovers dead son

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PARIS | Fri Aug 20, 2010 12:58pm EDT

PARIS (Reuters) - A French woman discovered her 42-year-old son had been buried in the same cemetery where she was attending her brother's funeral, after she had tried to invite him to the ceremony, a newspaper said Friday.

The family were leaving the cemetery near Lille, Wednesday when one of them noticed a temporary wooden gravestone bearing the son's name and date of birth in an area reserved for poor people.

"In two or three seconds, everybody started to scream," the man's father Elie Langlet told La Voix du Nord newspaper. "Josiane (the mother) collapsed. She buries her brother and finds her kid in a grave near him. It's unthinkable," he said.

The local council confirmed the father of one, Olivier, had died on July 5 from natural causes.

Josiane Vermeersch said she had tried to contact her son a few days before to invite him to his uncle's funeral, to no avail, and had thought he was ignoring her after a row.

"Someone hasn't done their job," she told news channel I-Tele. "I demand explanations," Vermeersch said, adding it was unbelievable in a time of modern technology that nobody had attempted to contact the family.

Citing the funeral parlor that buried the man, the newspaper said it was not uncommon for families not to be informed if there is no immediate contact address.

French law stipulates that a burial must take place within six days of a death.

(Reporting by John Irish; Editing by Nina Chestney)

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Comments (11)
kiwibird wrote:
Very sad particularly as they had a fight. Goes to show you it’s true that old saying..never let the sun go down on your anger.

Aug 23, 2010 5:31pm EDT  --  Report as abuse
DVM wrote:
Sadly…the blame should go on French law…a burial must take place within 6 days of a death according to the article. You think they could wait a little longer to be sure and nofity some type of family member. Folks seperate from their family members for whatever reason…but they should have a better opportunity to pay their respects.

Aug 23, 2010 6:53pm EDT  --  Report as abuse
kjanson wrote:
6 days is ample to notify a MOTHER of her deceased child. I don’t know any of this party yet somehow I know.

Aug 24, 2010 1:46am EDT  --  Report as abuse
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