Facebook new frontier in parent-teen relationship

NEW YORK Tue Jan 18, 2011 1:14pm EST

The Facebook logo is displayed on a computer screen in Brussels April 21, 2010. REUTERS/Thierry Roge

The Facebook logo is displayed on a computer screen in Brussels April 21, 2010.

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NEW YORK (Reuters Life!) - Roughly two thirds of American teenagers are comfortable enough with their parents to have them as Facebook friends, according to a new study.

But 16 percent of students said befriending their parents was a precondition for joining the social networking site and 38 percent said they simply ignored friend requests from their father or mother.

"Facebook ... continues to be the new frontier in the ever evolving relationship between parent and child," said Kristen Campbell, of Kaplan Test Prep, which questioned 2,313 students, aged about 16 to 18, about social networking trends.

The study showed that 65 percent of teens "are not hiding and that is positive," said Campbell, an executive director at the company that develops college prep programs.

For many young Americans Facebook offers an opportunity to remain independent from their parents, according to Campbell.

"Even though parents are very involved and very active, Facebook allows young people to exert their independence," she explained. "They want part of their lives to be private."

In some instances, parents and their children decide to mutually keep their Facebook lives separate. Even though many teens ignore friend requests from their parents, 82 percent of teens report that their parents are either "very involved" or "somewhat involved" in their academic lives.

Campbell described Facebook as a natural step in being connected for a generation that has grown up with the Internet.

"This is a generation that's communicating electronically and now the lines of communication are open in new ways."

(Reporting by Bernd Debusmann Jr., editing by Patricia Reaney)

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Rogue_T wrote:
I certainly think twice about messages I post to my wall/comments I make to my wall due to the fact that my mother/father could potentially be reading it. lol.

Jan 20, 2011 3:38pm EST  --  Report as abuse
Haha, Facebook will make everyone insane!

Jan 21, 2011 8:42am EST  --  Report as abuse
Chewy wrote:
Why would teens hide anything (today) from this (my) generation of young and 30 something parents? After all the junk we pulled when we were teens? We’ve got nothing to hide, why should they? This isn’t the ’50s anymore. There aren’t a lot of good standards, most of the time, and even when there are, kids have little to be afraid of, because their parents don’t really punish them or anything. The few parents who do raise their kids right use discipline rather than punishment anyway, and kids tend to appreciate that. I’m surprised anyone did a study on this. It’s not shocking.

Jan 24, 2011 12:19am EST  --  Report as abuse
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