California girl fled to escape arranged marriage

13-year-old Jessie Marie Bender is a photo released by the San Bernardino County Sheriff's Department March 3, 2011. REUTERS/Handout

13-year-old Jessie Marie Bender is a photo released by the San Bernardino County Sheriff's Department March 3, 2011.

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LOS ANGELES | Fri Mar 4, 2011 10:54am EST

LOS ANGELES (Reuters) - A 13-year-old Southern California girl who ran away from home to escape an arranged marriage in Pakistan has been taken into protective custody by child welfare authorities, police said on Thursday.

Jessie Marie Bender, who vanished from her home in the early morning hours of February 22, was found on Wednesday at a motel in a nearby community, where she had been hiding with the help of an uncle, San Bernardino County Sheriff's spokeswoman Roxanne Walker said.

The middle school student, who was missing for eight days, was physically unharmed.

"She ran away because she didn't want to go to Pakistan. She was afraid," Walker told Reuters.

The girl was taken into protective custody, along with her three siblings, after detectives corroborated her story, Walker said.

A spokeswoman for the San Bernardino County District Attorney's Office said prosecutors would weigh possible criminal charges against members of her family once police presented them with the case.

Jessie was initially reported missing from her home in the desert community of Hesperia, about 70 miles northeast of Los Angeles, by family members who said she may have run away to avoid going on a two-month trip to Pakistan.

Several days later, Jessie's mother, Melissa, told police she believed her daughter had been abducted by someone she met on Facebook -- a claim that triggered an exhaustive hunt for the teen involving local police, the FBI and U.S. Marshals, Walker said.

After an investigation turned up no evidence that Jessie had been kidnapped, Walker said, detectives discovered that an uncle had taken her to a motel in nearby Apple Valley out of fear that she would be taken to Pakistan for an arranged marriage.

Walker said Jessie and her mother were American but that the girl's stepfather was a Pakistani native. It was not immediately clear if the girl's mother and stepfather are married.

"She was afraid to go to Pakistan and she didn't want to go back home because she was scared," Walker said. "We're just glad she's OK."

(Editing by Greg McCune)

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CPA1976 wrote:
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Mar 04, 2011 8:49pm EST  --  Report as abuse
AG58 wrote:
There appears no evidence from the story that any arranged marriage was planned. Pakistan has shown little tolerance for other religions and there are terrible crimes against women; those are facts. However, in this particular case, it could just be that the child was scared and over-reacted.

Mar 05, 2011 11:28am EST  --  Report as abuse
5tudentT wrote:
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