Yelling, threatening parents harm teens' mental health

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NEW YORK (Reuters Health) - Threatening or screaming at teenagers may put them at higher risk for depression and disruptive behaviors such as rule-breaking, a new study suggests.

"The take home point is that the verbal behaviors matter," Annette Mahoney, who worked on the study, said. She's a professor of psychology at Bowling Green State University in Ohio.

"It can be easy to overlook that, but our study shows that the verbal hostility is really relevant, particularly for mothers who scream and hit, and for fathers who do either one," Mahoney told Reuters Health.

All of the kids in her study had been referred to a community clinic due to mental health or behavioral problems.

Their mothers had to be both verbally and physically abusive to increase the kids' risk for depression and behavior issues. But either kind of behavior alone from a father was sufficient to produce lasting ill effects.

The researchers realize that parents can be trapped in a vicious cycle.

Verbal abuse "has a cyclical nature to it," said Mahoney. Kids with behavioral or mental health problems can be tough to handle, she said.

Not surprisingly, her team found, adolescents whose parents were also physically violent toward them - hitting, choking, or threatening them with a gun or knife - had an even higher risk for mental illness and behavioral problems.

"Parental verbal aggression towards adolescents is just as - if not more - destructive than severe physical aggression, particularly in families seeking mental health services," said Michelle Leroy, also of Bowling Green State University who led the research.

For the study, which was published in the journal Child Abuse & Neglect, 239 troubled adolescents between the ages of 11 and 18 filled out surveys that asked if they were hit, called names, or subjected to other forms of physical or verbal violence over the past year.

Parents of the youths also participated, reporting their behaviors in the same time frame.

Fifty-one percent of the adolescents said they'd experienced serious physical or verbal aggression, or both, from one or two parents.

Having a mother who both screamed and hit increased kids' risk for mental health problems (such as anxiety, depression, and rule-breaking behaviors) to an even greater extent than having a mother who was aggressive in only one way.

In other words, the effect of a mother's verbal hostility may be worsened if she also hits her child, Mahoney said. That may be because teens likely feel more traumatized and threatened when physical violence is a real possibility.

In contrast, screaming by mothers who had not previously escalated to serious physical aggression did not appear to increase the risk of psychological problems among teens getting counseling in this study, Mahoney told Reuters Health.

On the other hand, fathers who were verbally abusive affected the adolescents' mental health, regardless of whether the threats were accompanied by physical violence.

The study's results may indicate that doctors should be on the lookout for verbal aggression at home, particularly in families with an adolescent who may be having mental health or behavioral problems, the researchers say.

Many doctors make it a habit to ask their patients about acts of physical abuse. They should also ask about verbal violence, Mahoney's team adds.

"You have to break the cycle; someone has to crack it open. It doesn't excuse the parents' behavior, but (doctors and therapists) have to not be judgmental (and) get the facts out."

SOURCE: bit.ly/J32Z74, Child Abuse & Neglect, online November 17, 2013.

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Comments (6)
MollySkyar wrote:
Completely agree- shouting matches don’t serve for a way to communicate with a teen. If anything it exacerbates things. There’s simply no way to control teens 24/7, and they’re constantly struggling to self-identify and find their own place and their own time. Having a parent interfering negatively in this process only increases conflict and, as Dr. Rutherford (clinical psychologist) puts it, will negatively impact the child in their adult life and in their own relationships: http://ConversationsWithMyMother.com/teenager-acting-out-what-to-do/

Dec 12, 2013 2:43pm EST  --  Report as abuse
jtfane wrote:
The article seems more than a bit self contradictory to me. This statement just doesn’t make sense:

“Not surprisingly, her team found, adolescents whose parents were also physically violent toward them – hitting, choking, or threatening them with a gun or knife – had an even higher risk for mental illness and behavioral problems.

“Parental verbal aggression towards adolescents is just as – if not more – destructive than severe physical aggression, particularly in families seeking mental health services,” said Michelle Leroy, also of Bowling Green State University who led the research.”

Particularly when it is followed shortly by this:

“Having a mother who both screamed and hit increased kids’ risk for mental health problems (such as anxiety, depression, and rule-breaking behaviors) to an even greater extent than having a mother who was aggressive in only one way.

In other words, the effect of a mother’s verbal hostility may be worsened if she also hits her child, Mahoney said. That may be because teens likely feel more traumatized and threatened when physical violence is a real possibility.

In contrast, screaming by mothers who had not previously escalated to serious physical aggression did not appear to increase the risk of psychological problems among teens getting counseling in this study, Mahoney told Reuters Health.”

This would seem to state quite clearly that, despite the article title, yelling, threatening mothers do not appear to increase the risk of psychological problems among teens. At least according to this study. It would seem appropriate to me to adjust the title accordingly and to either remove or further explain the above quote from Michelle Leroy. Psychology is an immensely complex subject but it would be nice to at least maintain consistency within an individual article.

Dec 14, 2013 8:08am EST  --  Report as abuse
ANZUS wrote:
Daft hypothesis and counterproductive to individual responsibility. Like suggesting that people who go to jail are susceptible to metal illness and or violent behaviour, thus we should eliminate the practice of incarceration.

Dec 14, 2013 11:06am EST  --  Report as abuse
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