U.S. military marriages strained by long deployments

By Claudia Parsons

FORT DRUM, New York (Reuters) - U.S. military chaplain Nathan McLean says he deliberately makes it difficult for young soldiers to get married because if they have to "jump through some hoops" the marriage is more likely to survive.

The U.S. Army has reported divorce rates rise with longer deployments in the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. With one in five veterans of the two wars suffering mental health problems, the strain is taking its toll on military families.

"The more difficult it is for (young soldiers) to marry, typically the better it is for the family," Capt. McLean said in an interview at Fort Drum, home of the 10th Mountain Division 2nd Brigade Combat Team, which has deployed four times since 2001.

McLean will only perform a marriage after a couple has gone through at least four relationship counseling sessions.

A Baptist minister who returned from Iraq with the 2nd Brigade Combat Team in late 2007, McLean said family issues are the bulk of his workload in Iraq and at home and have a direct impact on a soldier's ability to perform his or her duties.

"Where the family goes, there goes the army," McLean said.

A report by the Army's Mental Health Advisory Team (MHAT) in February surveyed mental health specialists working with soldiers in Iraq and Afghanistan. It quoted one as saying: "Fifteen month deployments are designed to destroy marriages."

U.S. President George W. Bush has said he will reduce deployments back to a maximum of 12 months after raising them last year to 15 months, but for some the damage has been done.