| NEW DELHI, July 5
NEW DELHI, July 5 A television reporter walks
out of the newsroom after a spat with her boss, setting out on
an impulsive road trip that eventually puts her life back on
Urvashi Gulia's debut novel "My Way Is the Highway" is in
many ways a memoir, with traits for her characters drawn from
the author's real-life observations of India's ratings-hungry
Manki, the book's main character, leaves Delhi for the
Himalayan mountains hundreds of miles away with only her trusty
jeep Iqbal Mastani for company, learning to fish, unwind and
even fall in love along the way.
Gulia, a former journalist who now works in the non-profit
sector, was inspired by the sudden death of Soumya Vishwanathan,
a Delhi-based TV journalist murdered in 2008. Writing a book was
one of the dreams Gulia had shared with her friend and Soumya's
death made her realise she couldn't put it off.
Gulia spoke to Reuters about how her book isn't really chick
lit and how life isn't easy for young, single people in India.
Q: You were a journalist yourself. How did this book come
A: "Way back in 2004, after a series of crazy nights at
work, I couldn't sleep. I wrote a start and an end and announced
to my friends that I am going to write a book. I wrote that bit
on an office notepad and forgot all about it. The notepad came
back to me when I was moving houses in 2007. I took a sabbatical
then and practically changed my career.
"In all honesty, I would have probably sat on it longer but
I Iost a very dear friend with whom I used to talk about writing
a book, maybe make a movie one day and many other things that we
would plan to do at some point in life. I realised that I didn't
have all the time in the world to do everything that we dream
about. Two weeks after she died, I was at Pune airport, I opened
the notepad and put it away. I picked it up a month later and
wrote non-stop for two days. That's how it came about."
Q: Did you really take that trip alone?
A: "I didn't do it alone. I travelled the route. Every place
mentioned in the book is a real place. I picked up the elements
of those experiences during camping trips with my friends. I
deliberately travelled twice over to get the distances right."
Q: Did you have the plot and characters from the outset?
A: "The only things I have changed since the first draft are
adding shades of grey to my characters. Initial draft had
everything sugary sweet. I had to give Manki that touch --
almost every urban woman goes through a phase when she likes
more than one guy at a time, then she has to choose, and that is
not easy. I was initially very careful with the language too,
but then I thought why not use the real words that are used in a
television newsroom. My editor's brief was to be real rather
than being nice.
"Most of the journalistic instances in the book are drawn
from real life, some from mine and some from my friends. Also,
there is such a charm in the youngsters about the media world,
every young girl and guy wants to be a television journalist, so
I thought I should let them get a glimpse of this side as well."
Q: Can this book be described as chick lit?
A: "No. I have a big contention with branding of books chick
lit and lad lit. If every piece of contemporary fiction by a
woman writer with a female protagonist will be branded as a
chick lit then aren't you creating a glass ceiling under a
sexist glass ceiling that already exists? I'd like to say it is
an urban contemporary fiction ... I have a moral issue with the
chick lit tag. I just feel it is unfair. If ten years later,
people say this was one book which talked about how women in the
Indian cities lived, it is spot on."
Q: How much of Manki is you?
A: "I don't have the guts that she does. The only similarity
is that we are both journalists, and an army man's daughters.
Placing the story in a time span of 2005 - 09 was easy too,
because I was working in the media, and even later I still had
friends. So the research was not very difficult. Manki and I
talk and think at the same pace. She thinks so much, does too
much in a day. I don't have Iqbal, the jeep. Also, I wish I
could take a lone trip into the hills. All the traits I have
built in are the amplified traits of journalists in this
Q: How tough or easy is life for a single woman in Indian
A: "The cities don't make it easy for you. It is a
personality issue. I mean you can live as bold a life as you
want in Delhi or Bombay, Bangalore or Kolkata ... Apart from
that it is your decision, you decide this is what I want, and
these are the precautions I will take to stay safe. There are
tiny peripheries in all these towns where you may be safe. You
need your allies. I feel that it is a huge celestial conspiracy
against single women in India: From absolute strangers,
neighbours, friends to eventually your own distant and near
family members start asking questions. Why are you single? And
if you are seeing someone, then why is that person coming over
to your house? Who is this guy with you in your pictures? Same
goes for men too. No one wants to give a house to a bachelor."
(Editing by Tony Tharakan and Elaine Lies)